Yooooooo Hoooooo? Anyone home? Yes i'm still around... And watching...
I tell you all, I was sitting here browsing profiles to find the lulz and came across a couple of real gems.. Here's one who simply MUST play the victim, and then the teacher.
Okay it's a 40 submissive in Illinois and her profile is a poem *eyeroll*.. Yeah fine, but here's a journal entry this one wrote on 1-2-2012..
"1/2/2012 9:57:56 AM:
Warning to other submissive females about a Dom/Abuser on this site."
Just to set the seriousness of the mood here, that first part is typed in large red letters on a white background.. Because dammit, this is a fucking serious warning and she needs your attention!! So listen the fuck up!
Errr right, back to the journal..
"I wasn't going to do this but after talking with some friends I realized that it was my duty to warn other subs about this Dom that isn't anything but an abuser. He goes by the name ChicagoDom9999. I talked to him for 3 months by phone, we finally met, and against my better judgement and all the "red flags" I played."
Okay, time out.
Yeah sure, the BDSM D/s scene is chock full of abusers and there's no denying it and this ChicagoDom9999 person may very well BE one...But come on now, what does it say about you when you can tell us that it was against your better judgement and all the "red flags" yet you still played with him?
Well it tells us you're a fucking idiot right off the bat. If you're going to leave your common sense at the door, you shouldn't be surprised when bad things happen because of it. Enough unsuspecting people get hurt for me to ever have any sort of sympathy for the potential Darwin Award candidate who knew it was a bad idea to play with this guy yet still did so. Okay, even if she was not correct and perhaps this guy is not the abuser she claims, going against your better judgement and ignoring the red flags is just plain fucking stupid.
"Long story short..... Was tied and beaten bad enough that almost a month later my breasts and ass are still bruised, I had to see a doctor because of the abrasions/infection and he never once asked how I was doing after my visit. Four days later, a few texts and he disappeared. Now, me being a masochist, and if he had really wanted r/t like he said this wouldn't have been a problem. He could have helped me through it, but this is not who he is. Do not see this man, you will be hurt and played. So ladies, if you have any questions, feel free to message me, and I will provide you will his real name because I am sure once he realizes that I have posted this he will change his screen name if he hasn't already."
As a point of interest, the person mentioned did not delete his profile, but it's empty. Yes, when someone goes out and gets abused like this, it sucks and all that, but COME ON, If you're not smart enough to heed those red flags and play with this asshole even though it was against your better judgement, you don't get to play either the fucking victim or the teacher. Besides, she even says that if he'd hung around, it wouldn't have been a problem instead of him being one that wanted nothing more than to do what he did.
Umm, you were abused to the point where the bruises were still there a month later and had to see the doctor for infections.. and your big issue is that he didn't want to stay around for more... It really makes me wonder if the actual "abuse" is he didn't want you afterward.
No, on second thought you DO get to be a teacher of sorts.. Here, let me help you. Hey folks, this is the classic example of idiocy. Don't be an idiot.
There, lesson taught.
As for the above person, learn to listen when that little voice in your head is telling you that you're about to fuck up.
Yeah, I know that sounds a bit harsh to profess no sympathy for someone who got abused. But I just can't when someone will not take responsibility for their own decisions.
Ah, and my old friend MzCourtney has once again started a new name, this time he is using the name IrisBitch and is now a 22 year old female dominant in Pennsylvania. (He was 35 last year.) Same sort of profile with a slightly different wording but it says the same thing. No hilarious bit about making his parents kneel for him though, he's slipping.
Not too long after I started this blog, I was contacted by someone who said he was of the European old guard and had this story he told about himself involving his first mistress being a grand daughter of Leopold Masoch.. I'm not going to make you go find it, i'll just repost it so that you can see it and where this is going.
The following is what he sent to me awhile back. I posted it then because this college professor and lifelong master was one to have read my profile and took the damn thing seriously.
"Hi there! I read your profile and got confused...
UltimateDomme... Switch... slave... Grand Mistress... Do you really understand what you are talking about after those three weeks of intensive training 'under a European and an Asian Master'? It sounds like that Master or Masters of yours are just self-proclaimed dominants with no elementary education in BDSM traditions and culture.
I am a lifelong Master, professionally trained in an European tradition of BDSM (my Mistress was a grand daughter of Mr. Masoch - I hope that you know this name), and it took me years and years to earn Master status, then Grand Master status, and then MasterTrainer status... For more info, please, read my entire profile and journal entries...
If you are serious about BDSM traditions and culture and want to become a certified Mostress, I will be glad to educate and coach you as a founder of Alt & BDSM College (see AltCollege on this site and go to (link edited out.).
Anyway, I will be glad to talk to you..."
Right then, I want you to pay special attention to the part about how it took him years and years to earn master status..... etc.. Pay special attention to that because there have been some fucking funny developments to this particular story.. In his profile he speaks of spending 10 (ten) years as this woman's slave (I think he called himself a sex boy) and then afterward rose through the "ranks" to become the person he is today.
Apparently he found someone to teach and personally "certify" them as a mistress.. YAY!! The person's name on CM is Sexpectation and is a 33 female dominant.
Now, it takes how long to become a master in the old guard traditions?? Years and years right?...RIGHT?
This person purported to be brand new to the lifestyle not 4 years ago and was in fact brought into the life by this mastertrainerv clown.. Or at least that's what the profile says.
All of a sudden on her profile she has completed her formal training and has now been "certifed" as a mistress..
Oh but wait.. not only that, she is also *giggle* an associate mistress trainer for that altcollege thingiemaboobie.
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Now what kind of bullcrap is this assclown trying to pull? Years and years to be elevated to master, grandmaster, and finally master trainer.. and this weird looking woman (Yeah, the woman looks weird) who was brand new to the lifestyle less than 4 years ago was made into some sort of TRAINER in her own right?
Oh, now you know I don't really give a flying fuck about it.. I just find it all pretty lulz worthy.. Most likely, the dude found someone to buy into his line of shit and once on the hook, stayed hooked..
Of course they both type in the same typing style and since they are both on my favs list I see they logon one right after the other, but we all know a real old guard master would NEVER stoop so low as to create an alterego for his online profile and "school" err would he?
What are the odds?
Oh, before I get into this bit it's time to remember the fake lesbian theme song, Men in Tights.. Not linking it, just remember it. ya got it? Good..
Now, what are the odds of two lesbians.. both in the same area and on CM... both being "profoundly" deaf from having meningitis when they were seven years old?
Further, what are the odds of their respective explanations of this being the exact same on their profiles, AND!!!!!!!!.. And that the two of them actually know each other because they are on each other's friends list on CM?
I'd say. ohhh.. even money since that's the facts of the case.
We're talking about a 19 and 20 lesbian female switch in Alberta, Canada.
Here's a cute little piece of the 20 year old's profile..
"I have an old pc, it has no USB port, no CD ROM drive, no Blue Tooth, no Memory Card slots, and I run WIN NT 4.0 as my operating system.
I am profoundly deaf, I have no use for a cell phone."
Now, this bit was written to explain that she has absolutely no way to take photos and transfer them to her computer. Of course her primary profile photo shows a woman taking a self photo with an electronic camera, but we'll overlook that.
Everyone sing along.. "We're mennnnnnn we're men in tiii-iiights...."
Oh, I know it's the same guy.. You don't have to tell me. Check them out, they are wendywendywendy and Eating0My0Candie. One of them is purportedly being "trained" by a well known fake lesbian called Cory4u. You might want to also have a look at the profile of another 20 lesbian in Alberta called willing0slave. She has two friends on her profile, these two.. and gives a shout out to this cory4u fella.
Here's another that caused me to have a giggling fit.. A 30 lesbian dominant in Holly, Michigan.. Here check out this profile part...
"Looking for a slave willing to do all as told no questions asked. Men will be blocked Xxxxxxxxxx is a fake I will not do phone I have had my number given out to many time and have had to change it to many times. Looking for a slave willing to let me take over there life."
Now let's seeeeeeeee..... Looking for someone to do all with no questions asked.. she further goes on later in this profile part to say she wants someone who will let her take over their lives..
Yet... ummm.. she won't even do phone?
I just don't know.. I think if it were me about to let someone take over my life i'd want some sort of committment from that person, wouldn't you?
Oh dear, i'm just not being a nice person am I? Oh well, i'll end it right here then, I wouldn't want anyone accusing me of being mean, now would I?
I am a well known Pro Domme on CM as well as FL and several other web sites. I choose to remain anonymous, because I don’t like the way you attack people with out knowing anything about them. You criticize them and make accusations and you have no idea if they are real or not. You just make it sound as though they are fakes as it suits your needs.
ReplyDeleteI know a lot of people, in person, as many of them come to my “place of work.”
Much of what I do, benefits me by being on CM and FL and several other sites by allowing people to interact with me on both a personal and professional level.
Now to the point in question:
I grew up with two deaf persons in my life, and so I learned to sign very early on, and I am actively involved in the deaf community and often volunteer to translate and help others communicate better at job interviews and lawyers offices etc. etc. etc. Nothing new to the deaf community.
The girls you speak of, or should say speak DOWN too are not only real you idiot, they are also members of the deaf community and are active as volunteers. You know them and Eating0My0Candie and WendyWendyWendy.
Unfortunately, they both lost their hearing through an illness and were too old and did not have enough time or the resources to learn to sign. So they only learned to read lips. The both do very well.
I met them when they approached the deaf community about receiving assistance in applying for work.
I went with them both for interviews. Candie, yes her real name, now works abroad where as Wendy, also her real name, works for an insurance adjusters.
It is a funny thing when you are too arrogant to look into anything with a little detail and perhaps ask around to see if anyone knows who these people are.
I remain friends with both girls.
Now, as to willing0slave, whose name is Bri, I simply met her through my dealings with Candie and Wendy.
She is a lovely girl and if you say she is fake as well, I can safely say you are an idiot.
They are independent and each have bright and happy dispositions and you turn that all into shit, which I can guess is all you have time for.
You disgust me with your stupidity and your willingness to crush and hurt others for no reason what so ever, as you said if they are not hurting anyone, then what is the harm?
I need to ask you, what are you doing? You are hurting people by not doing your home work and nit picking over spelling mistakes.
I recently had a Christmas party and I invited all three to attend, Wendy and Bri both came but Candie was abroad.
We had a wonderful evening, there were 9 other people 4 of them are on CM.
They now know Wendy and Bri personally.
How many pictures, people, and letters does it take before you admit you might just be wrong, or in this case you are totally wrong?
The last fool that wrote an exposé, about a girl that was fake, made me laugh so hard as she was sitting on my couch at the time. Another fool like you who has no proof, no business picking someone’s life apart when they have done nothing wrong. You think you stumbled across something amazing and all you did was pick on 3 girls who do no harm to anyone and have done their best to keep their heads up from idiots like you, or some of the nicer members that have called them names one in fact stated she didn’t like deaf people, or a so called DOM who told Wendy and Candie that deaf girls were defective.
You are an idiot, and I learned one thing from knowing these girls, and that is you don’t deserve to any explanation for anything, or any reason.
So do us all a favor and stop playing GOD and criticize those whom you know are doing harm or hurting others.
Stop picking on the vulnerable.
I am not sharing my name, simply because I don’t have to, you don’t need to know anything, and you don’t know anything now.
All three girls are sweet and kind, where as you are none of these things. You disgust me and are a small man. You sound just like the losers who message lesbians and get pissed off when they are rejected.
Now does anyone reading the above comment believe it? I find it ironic that the comment was made on April 1st.
DeleteI don't blame you for not posting your name, we wouldn't want anyone thinking you're the same person as wendy/candie/bri now would we?
That story was and is so full of holes it looked like swiss cheese.
I wasn't making fun of deaf people at all. I was making fun of that guy who claims to be those three deaf lesbians.
That was a nice try though.
The odd thing is the author of this post (Ultimate Domme)has been called a bitter often rejected MAN "herself."
ReplyDeleteWhile admitting she doesn't know any of the girls mentioned, she insists they're fake but sights no actual proof, WTF? What's the point of posting such a hateful angry message if you don't actually have anything to back it up? How does anyone take your arguments seriously? You just sound bitter.
Now to the reason I'm here:
I've known Candie Keely (eating0my0candie... Her real name) for almost 3 years. I met her through mutual friends & not online. We see each other at least once a week & she's one of my BFF's.
I've watched her throwing up with the flu, eating dinner, laughing, drinking tea, walking, running, shopping, sleeping & I've seen her completely naked. I'm pretty sure she's a girl, I can tell these things. DUH!
Oh & yes, she's deaf, I'm not. She reads lips & speaks rather well though it does take some getting used to.
She's also smart, funny, sweet, giving, caring, sensitive, hard headed, stubborn, sometimes pushy & a really good friend.
I don't know the other girls mentioned although I've heard of her friend Bri & I don't know about any of the other bullshit mentioned in Ultimate Domme's tirade, but I know a real woman when I see her.
I'm on FL & was on CM for a while too but I found it to be too full of idiots. (Ultimate Domme???) I didn't meet Candie online & I don't know anything about her online activities from CM so I can't comment on them.
My point:
If you don't have any real proof & not a single thing to back up your claims (as is the case here) then don't go bashing other people you don't know anything about, you only sound desperate, sad & bitter.
I didn't read anything here that proved you know anything about Candie. I can easily say the same things about Ultimate Domme, who looks maybe 25, clearly not Ultimate in any way.
I seriously doubt you're much of a Domme at all as you seem to waste a lot of your time ranting about, spreading hatred of others.
Real Domme's have respect, show restraint, the only thing I read here is bitterness & contempt & you really need to learn some manners.
This post of yours speaks volumes about who you are & I see only a sad & lonely person with nothing better to do than bitch about someone who may have simply rejected you.
I'm wondering if the only thing you do is complain when things don't go your way. I think it's pathetic.
In closing:
All this ranting was pointless, & perhaps more about you being rejected than anything else. I think Ultimate Domme is nothing more than a man who couldn't accept that Candie is gay, was rejected by her & felt the need to whine about it.
In case anyone wants to rebut this feel free to message me.
I've chosen not to be anonymous.
gem2btortured@yahoo.com